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From North Carolina to Florida

On Sunday, July 14th, Kaleya and I took our next travel journey during our vacation and made our way down to Florida. We left bright and early (6 am) to start our trip.

On the way down through NC and SC to get to I-95, we drove through several small towns. If I’d had time, I would have particularly liked to have stopped in Bennettsville, SC. I drove right past the county courthouse.

Marlboro County Courthouse – photo from Wikipedia

After getting onto I-95, I unfortunately hit several spots of hard rain, but the rest of the trip to Jacksonville was fine. I wanted to stop in Savannah to take Kaleya to the Juliette Gordon Lowe birthplace since she joined the GIrl Scouts this year, but the Savannah area was one that was struck by heavy rain so I nixed that.

I’ve only been to Jacksonville once before, back at least 10 years ago when Kalonji had a Navy culinary school to attend in St. Augustine.  In Jacksonville, I stopped to visit with cousins of mine whom I’d never met and I spent the night with a friend of mine whom I haven’t seen in 14 years!  On the way into town, I crossed a beautiful bridge, the Dames Point Bridge.

Dames Point Bridge

My cousin is an avid photographer and of course he snapped some pics of us.  He also has a lot of family photos so we talked about the family and we went through some of the pictures.  He and his wife were so nice – they treated Kaleya and I to lunch – and I thoroughly enjoyed my visit. I have some info now to send them on how they can work on their family tree and archive their pictures.

Cousin Chris shows us her garden
with cousins Lawrence and Oliver
Cousin Oliver looks over family photos


After visiting with them, I went over to my friend’s house and rested up. Of course we had to take a group pic of her with her two kids!

my friend Nicole and her kids

Then, Monday morning we departed on the road again to get down to Spring Hill, FL where my Mommy lives. On the way down, my cousin warned me that Highway 301 was a speed trap and sure enough it was. I saw no less than 6 Sheriff cars pulling people over. There is even a sign to warn you – I thought that was hilarious! But, apparently, Lawty has many years of history with the AAA as a speed trap area.

speed trap sign. photo not mine, but from

I heeded all speed limit signs and made it down to Spring Hill w/o incident. Yeah!

w/ my Mommy!


Over the course of these two days we traveled 543 miles (ignore the blip at the top – a location artifact from Google Latitude)

543 miles traveled

More pictures from the trip can be found here.

Visit to the Sciquarium

The vacation adventures continued on Saturday, July 13th when Kaleya and I visited the Greensboro Science Center Zoo, Museum and Aquarium.  I visited with my aunt and cousin – as well as a friend and her daughter. We had a wonderful time!!!

The Aquarium part of the center, the “Sciquarium,” has only been open a few weeks and is a major draw for traffic right now. It took us awhile to find a parking space but it was well worth it. We started in the Sciquarium and then did the Zoo and other parts.  Who knew you could pet a stingray? I don’t think I’d ever seen a swimming cat before. And the penguins were just freakin’ adorable!

Taneya & Kaleya pose
Anaconda snake
Kaleya & E with an alligator

We were able to see tigers and tortoises as well.

Tortoises getting fed
Tiger looks like it’s coming for her doesn’t it?

At the end of the day, we were next to a park and my cousin wanted to go check out the paddle boats. She had fond memories of one of my now deceased aunts, Ella, having taken her out in the paddle boats and spending hours just enjoying the peace and quiet. Sure enough, we all ended up on the paddle boats on this day. I didn’t see that one coming! At first I was hesitant to get in the boat – questioning its ability to hold us all, but of course it did. Once on the boat, I settled in and just enjoyed being on the lake. I could definitely do that again.

view from the paddle boat

All in all, a great, but exhausting day. It was great to hang out with my family and friend. 🙂 More pics can be found here.

Nostalgia on Steroids

Day 5 of our vacation (Friday July 12th) was dedicated to some family history.  Each year growing up, my parents moved a lot and as a result, I lived in a different place each year from K-5 and I went to a different school each year also. We were living in Greensboro, so since I was going to be in town visiting my father, I decided to document each house/apartment and document each school.  Then, I will create a page on my Genealogy Blog for each year and document where we lived, where I went to school and any other notable memories from each year. I can’t wait!

Now, knowing where we lived took some extraction from my parents. 🙂 It has been 27 years since they first moved to Greensboro. They pegged the locations of our homes, and I remembered all my schools. I then plotted them all on a Google Map.

map of all my homes and schools in Greensboro from 1980-1985.

After plotting them on the map, I set out to go from place to place. While I didn’t get the exact locations of some of our residences, I feel my quest was quite an accomplishment. I am looking forward to creating my pages.

Then, after doing my city escapade, I had a chance to meet a cousin of mine that I’ve never met. He is a physician and practices in downtown Greensboro so I went by and we chatted for about 30 minutes. His mom just turned 100 years old.  He is actually a double cousin of mine, as his parents are both related to me. I was glad I was able to meet him.

I had a busy but productive day. Kaleya just came along for the ride and enjoyed the evening watching Disney shows.  Another great day down.



A Day Off and a Day Out

To continue the posts re our vacation, we took Wednesday off as a leisure day.  After two days on the road, we definitely needed it! Didn’t leave the house until dinner time. 🙂  On Thursday however, we hit the streets again – with a visit to the Greensboro Public Library and a visit to the Greensboro Children’s Museum.

I wanted to go to the public library so that I could see what they had in their genealogy collection.  Given the volunteer work I do for the NCGenWeb Project, I wanted to take a look at their resources. I also wanted to pull a few obituaries from the local newspaper.  Fortunately, they have digital microfilm machines but unfortunately, I quickly tired of scrolling through newspapers. So, I didn’t get as many as I’d originally planned.

digital microfilm machines at the Greensboro Public Library

Their monograph collection is good so I browsed and found some books that I didn’t know existed and identified a few follow-up tasks. Kaleya was a trooper while there and watched Netflix while I was busy working away.

part of the genealogy collection

After the public library, we jaunted across the street and went to the Greensboro Children’s Museum – that was great! It is basically a big play area with all kinds of scenarios in place – a train depot, a plane, a campground, a firetruck, racing car, wall climbing, post office, health clinic, construction zone, television news station and more. It was great fun!

in front of the Greensboro Children’s Museum
in the big red chair
Kaleya “drives” the train
Kaleya going aboard the plane
Kaleya cooks!
Receptionist Kaleya
successful operation!


We then topped the afternoon off with frozen yogurt from Sweet Frog.

Sweet Frog frozen yogurt.

What a great day! Only a few of our pictures are in this post – the rest can be viewed here.

3rd Time Is Definitely a Charm

Day 2 of the vacay and I was able to spend some time at one of my favorite spots – the Biltmore Estate. This day also happened to be my birthday. 🙂

After departing from Billie’s Monday night, we got back on the road and headed over to Asheville. I debated whether to take Kaleya there; I was not sure if she would appreciate it. But, she loves flowers and they have a great garden. And, I thought she may get into the opulence of the house. So.. off we went! This was my 3rd visit to the estate – I’ve gone before with Kelli. My last time there was in 2004, when I was pregnant with Kaleya. So much has changed since then. Upon arrival, they now have a center where tickets are purchased, and parking is no longer on the same plaza as the house – there are several lots and you can take a shuttle over. Fancy. 🙂 But, how can you NOT love this house!

Biltmore Estate

As I imagined, the house was spectacular. There were additional rooms open this time that I’d not seen before. I also did not do the audio tour as I already know plenty about the house. Instead, I focused on describing everything for Kaleya. I wasn’t able to clearly explain the relationship between the house and Vanderbilt University (where I work), but that’s okay. 🙂

One of my favorite places in the house is the Loggia – a patio on the entry floor with the most AMAZING views.

Kaleya on the loggia
view from the loggia
on the side terrace

After touring the house we went down to the gardens. Unfortunately, Kaleya was highly concerned about the bees to really enjoy it. You can see the trepidation all over her face.

in the walled garden
the walled garden

All in all, we have a great visit.

After Biltmore, I hopped back on the highway and went to visit another genealogy buddy – my friend Lorraine. She has roots in Plymouth, NC – same area as my maternal grandmother. I loved hanging out with her and her family! Her daughter even made me a birthday cake! After dinner, we chatted a bit more and then I had to head on home to my father’s house in Greensboro.

dinner w/ Lorraine’s family
we wait for the birthday cake
Lorraine and I

Thanks Lorraine for the hospitality! What a great way to spend my birthday.

By the end of the day, we traveled 214 miles.

distance traveled

The rest of the pictures from this day are here.

Visit to Blount County

Monday July 8th was the 1st day of my two-week vacation and I chose to start it off with a visit to Cades Cove, TN.  (note – some pics are below, but you can find all my pics from this day here.)

For the past 5 years, I have been the county coordinator for Blount County as part of the TNGenWeb Project, but I’ve never been there.  I have learned a lot about the history of the area from my work through TNGenWeb in helping others, but it was a wonderful experience to actually BE there and see the places and names that I have become familiar with.  Cades Cove in particular has been of interest to me – it is an isolated valley in the Great Smoky Mountains National Park and I have seen gorgeous pictures of the views there.

driving towards Cades Cove.
view in Cades Cove

Seeing the Cove involves an 11-mile loop road and it was neat to travel along it. We spent about two hours driving through and seeing it, but could have easily spent a whole day.  There is much to see, trails to follow, etc. To help with learning even more, I downloaded an audio tour that was quite entertaining. Our first stop in the Cove was John Oliver’s cabin. 

John Oliver cabin
view from John Oliver cabin


One of the stops we did get out of the car for was the Primitive Baptist Church.  Buried here is John Oliver and his family – they were the first European settlers to the area. Also buried in this cemetery are some distant relatives of one of my co-workers, the Shields family.  I recognized so many names so it was just cool to actually be there where they were.

Primitive Baptist Church
Kaleya in the church
John Oliver & Lurana Frazier Oliver. Buried at Primitive Baptist Church

We saw horses in the cove and Kaleya went bezerk – she loves horses. Seeing them run across the valley was amazing.

Kaleya w/ some horses

Here is a video she took while I was driving.

After our visit to the cove, I then headed to my friend Billie’s house. To get there from the Cove, we went through Pigeon Forge. Can I just say who knew TN had a Vegas-strip? That place was crazy! But, I know I’m gonna have to do the touristy-thing and take the kids there for a weekend. With places like MagiQuest, a Titanic museum, a Hollywood Wax Museum with a big King Kong on top, and a Hatfield & McCoys dinner theater, who can resist? Besides, I’ve already promised Kaleya. 🙂

MagiQuest in Pigeon Forge
Hollywood Wax Museum in Pigeon Forge

We made it to Billie’s (one of my genealogy buddies) and settled in for the night. Billie was definitely the “hostess with the most-ess”. Kaleya was treated to a food in bed. How do I top that?  Then, Billie set us on our way Tuesday morning with a great breakfast of scrambled eggs, biscuits with her very own homeade apple butter, and some Benton’s bacon – a Monroe County original.  I don’t each much bacon but that was some good stuff!!!

Kaleya gets treated royally.

In all, we covered about 180 miles on Monday according to Google Latitude. You can even see a loop where we were going around the Cove (the placement on the map isn’t quite right, but Google does know I did a loop). Neat.  🙂

180+ miles covered in one day!

Hanging Out at the Musician’s Corner

Yesterday, anxious to get the kids out and do something around town, I consulted Ms. Cheap’s column and found out about the Musician’s Corner event at Centennial Park. The kids love going to Centennial Park – we last went there in April for the Earth Day Festival. I particularly enjoy having the backdrop of The Parthenon. It makes for quite an impressive scenery.  The event itself was Tour de Fat’s travelling festival – Beer, Bikes & Amusement. There was definitely lots of beer (not that I drink the stuff), lots of bikes, and lots of amusement. But – it was all family friendly 🙂

Kaleya & Q post in very large picture frame

We wandered around a bit, Q climbed a tree, and we waited for the 2:15 Le Tigre showing.  LeTigre is a micro-vaudeville act – their tent only holds 52 people. It was entertaining for sure. The call guy (don’t know what else to call him?) was funny and interacted well with the audience while we waited to get in. The tent itself is decorative. Inside the tent it is quite cozy. Our show was that of Steinomite, a rapper character who actually had some cool celebrity wordplay in one of his songs :-).  You can catch some of his work on YouTube.

Q climbs trees
the awesome Le Tigre tent
my Queen of Hearts admission ticket for Le Tigre. They have 52 seats. Get it?

After the show, as we were walking through the park on our way to some of the amusement contraptions set up, we met Robin Williams! Kalonji happened to catch his profile as we passed by him and said out loud “Was that Robin Williams?” I was like, what? where? I turned around and saw him and we weren’t sure until we saw another couple go up to him and talk to him and shake his hand. Cool! So, we went over and I may have jumped the gun for I eagerly was like “Mr. Williams – it’s a pleasure to meet you!”  I then had to tell him that my mother was born on the exact same day he was (she’s been telling me this my whole life) and he said she shares good company. Ha! It was great. Then, Kalonji spoke to him and told him and we were able to get a picture. He was so nice! He is in town filming his latest movie.  When I was in grad school at UNC, he was on our campus filming Patch Adams – I think I remember getting a glimpse of him one day then, but this was way better 🙂

Robin Williams!

After that, the kids explored some of the activities that were in the park and we caught a performance from Yo Yo People – a husband and wife yo-yo expert team. They were great – funny & interactive.

Q and Kaleya with their heads in some kind of audio contraption
Yo Yo People perform

We then wandered over to Mickey D’s for some ice cream treats and came on back home. We later realized that we’d missed Here Come the Mummies though – dang it! Maybe next time.

Thanks to Musician’s Corner for a fun afternoon. We are looking forward to upcoming events!

My Favorite Workout Video EVER!

OMG. Last night I found my favorite workout video ever on YouTube! It is by Gin Miller and it is a Reebok Step Aerobics workout. The video is actually posted by Reebok themselves – they get my props for that!

When I was in college, Emory had a physical activity requirement, so every semester you had to do some sort of PE class. I appreciated that because it kept me physically active. By the time I graduated from college, I’d lost weight, gained some muscle and was about two sizes smaller than when I started school. It was great!  Part of my routine centered around this video. My senior year (1992-1993), I purchased this VHS tape, got a step, and did this workout at least three times a week. I absolutely love step aerobics!

So, in light of my recent efforts to increase my physical activity, when I found this video last night I was excited! I just finished doing most of the workout and I still love it. I had to do it with modifications though as I don’t even own a step. But, even doing it on the floor was enough to get my heart rate up there for awhile. I did about 30 minutes of it and couldn’t even do all the arm movements the whole way through. Yep, I have some progress to make, but I am just thrilled to get restarted.  If I can do this twice a week in addition to my walking on my treadmill desk, I should make great headway soon. 🙂


First Week With My Treadmill Desk

I am in love. With my new treadmill desk! (sorry Kalonji). Oh my – I can’t even begin to describe how great this is but I’ll try. 🙂

This week is my first week with my treadmill desk at work.  It is a LifeSpan TR800 DT-5 model and it has been wonderful! Here is what the desk looks like – it has a treadmill base and an independent adjustable height desk.  It is very sturdy.


And, here is me on the desk the very first day.

After the first couple of days, I realized I had the desk too low. I found myself having to reach for the keyboard and it was causing me strain, so I moved up the desk height. I am 5 ft. 6 inches, and I have it on setting number 8.  I’ve been in this configuration for 4 days and it is working well. I also added a second monitor so that I would have a larger screen to look at and also have a screen at a higher height.This setup has been perfect.


My Physical Activity

The goal for getting the desk was to get me more active. I have not been able to be effective in getting much physical activity into my daily regimen for many years now and I believe this is finally the solution. So… this week, I have averaged between 1.5-2 miles each day. I tend to walk around .8mph and my number of steps average about 3,000 steps (though- two days this week I was over 8,000 steps/day! Chalk that low average up to me needing to ramp up at the beginning.)

Walking while working has been fairly east to do at this slower speed. Having the second monitor has really helped me improve my ability to focus while on the treadmill for sure. The first couple of days I was indeed sore from having walked on it, but by the end of the week I found that getting to work and getting started felt good. Seriously, it feels GOOD to get on and start moving – to start working my legs.

My Goals

My goals for this first week were simple; to get used to being on the desk for more than an hour a day and get used to working while walking. I believe I have accomplished that! My goal for upcoming week 2 (April 1- 5, 2013) is to try and average 5,000 steps a day.  As you can see, I’m taking it slow.  But, as I like to tell myself…




Visit to Mammoth Caves, KY

The last week of January I was able to take time off work for a staycation and what a great week it was indeed! On the last day of my “staycay”, Kelli and I took the kids up to Mammoth Caves. It it near Nashville and only took about an hour and a half to get there.

Prior to going, I spent quite a bit of time checking out the website and trying to figure out which of the tours to take. With multiple factors going into the decision, I decided that we would do the Frozen Niagra Tour.

We arrived at the park at about 10:30 or so if I recall correctly.  Because we visited during off-season, they were not offering the tours as frequently as they do in other parts of the year, but there was an option for the Frozen Niagra Tour at 3pm so we had some time to kill. We started by checking out the Heritage Trail, a trail that begins just behind the Visitor’s Center. Mind you it was cold out – about 20 degrees that day, so we only did about half of the trail.  I wanted to be sure we got to the Old Guide’s Cemetery where Stephen Bishop, a slave cemetery on the grounds.

slave cemetery

We then went inside to see the exhibit in the Visitor’s Center. It was very well done and we learned some interesting facts about the cave. There was also a cave hole in the exhibit that the kids enjoyed. Doesn’t Kaleya look just like Kelli here?

We then drove around the grounds some before heading out for lunch.  After lunch, we came back and it was time for our tour. The Frozen Niagra Tour begins from a man-made entrance to the caves. To get there, we hopped on a bus for the short ride (a few miles).  While the Frozen Niagra is the shortest tour, it is also the “prettiest” part of the 400+ mile cave system and the only part that has formations. The tour was about 90 minutes and it was cool. Dark, wet and creepy about sums it up.

looking out on the grounds
cave formations
Miles & Kaleya in front of another cave formation

On the way out of the cave we saw cave crickets – even creepier!

cave crickets – not cool.

After the tour, we then decided to walk down to the “Historic Entrance” of the cave – the original entrance to the cave. The kids had fun exploring the ravine along the way and it was cool to see that part.

kids exploring. kinda look like “hobbitses” don’t they!
the Historic Entrance


The rest of our photos are here if interested. It was a great day – thanks National Park Service for a great visit!

Kaleya waves goodbye